GUYS THAT WILL SUCK and make your Life Miserable - STEER CLEAR OF THESE GUYS ("men")

AVOID THESE TYPES OF GUYS (Men - some never grow up, so "man" is a loose term - you know
that's why you're reading this)


• The guy can't look you in the eyes.   He's full of Lies.

• The guy who doesn't come to your door or pick you up for dates.  He waits. Or expects you to drive and meet him out.   A dolt with no manners, and not worth your time. 

• A guy expecting you to split the tab or pay the whole thing. Total parasite, cheap skate, selfish, and everything you'll be disgusted by every time you go out.  Drop him. 

• A man who starts borrowing money ..  Wait, quit him before he starts.  Buh Bye.  

• A man who tells you lies, white lies, little lies, half truths and "stories" that don't add up.    Also, omissions of truth, or pertinent information.

• A man who stares at other women in your company, flirts with them or has the cheek to take someone else’s number while out with you (he’s a lout, get rid of him yesterday already!) DUH, hopefully that turns you off.  If it doesn't, you've got serious self worth issues, and the next guy is bound to be one of these ya need to toss to the ditch as well. 


• A man who has shaky boundaries and who doesn’t respect yours (he will want enmeshment and will only suffocate you)

• A man who expects you to fight his battles for him or cover for him when he messes up (he has no balls, which means he’ll never be able to protect you)   They're usually the ones who talk it up ..  "I'll do anything for you baby".  "I'm here for you always"   "You are safe with me, I'll protect you"  ...  talk is cheap, actions, not words.  Don't tell me, show me, otherwise beat feet the other way.

• A man who drinks excessively or whose behavior changes when he consumes alcohol (watch out, alcoholic!!!)

A man who thinks Beavis and Butthead are funny enough to imitate when y'all are out and among your friends or family...  

• A man who seems to be hiding things from you or seems cagey when you question him about certain things (not to be trusted)

• A man who doesn’t appear to have strong family ties or doesn’t feel that family should be important (loose cannon only looking for casual sex, parties and a good time)

• A man who dislikes children (if you are thinking of having a family) Or pretends to like them but when around them, dismisses or shows intolerance of their presence. 

• A man who is overbearing or threatened by your strength, opinions or career (he will try to cut you down whenever he feels threatened)  Or your personality, looks, brains, whatever it is, if he is threatened by it, or diminishes those things, belittles, invalidates, takes away from those great things you have to offer----GET OUT --  He WILL be increasingly abusive, and you will be in a toxic wasteland, not a relationship.


• A man who is threatened by your passions & ideals (he’ll try to suppress you) Same as above, RUN, get out and don't look back.  He is toxic.  You will be infected and constantly fighting the poison he spews into your landfill of a "relationship"

• A man who discourages you from seeing your family or friends (insecure lout, run a mile!)

• A man who is threatened by your friendships or ex’s (insecure lout, keep running!)

• An unemployed man or a man with financial problems (he may end up expecting you to pay for everything)

• A man who cannot stand up for himself (he may expect you to fight his battles for him)
The "nice guy" syndrome.   You get to hear the whining and smack talk, but see him buckle and bend in front of those he can't say no or stand up to.   ( mothers, sisters, ex-wives, friends, clients, kids etc.)

• A divorced man who doesn’t pay child-support to his ex or doesn’t see his children regularly (doh, need I say more???)

• An unhygienic man with bad breath or bad body odour (you’ll have mother him)

• A man who doesn’t return your calls but waits a week or two to call you back (you’re on his “good time only” list)

• A man who talks about himself and doesn’t bother to ask questions about you, your family or your interests (egotistical)


• Any man you suspect of abusing any substances (run a mile)

• A recovering addict or alcoholic (they should avoid all forms of romantic relationships for at least the first year of their sobriety)   Make that 2 or 3 years.  IF at all.  Some can finally drop the substance, but not the "thinking problem" they had with it.  "Dry drunks" are worse than the ones who finally drink themselves out cold. 

• A man who is too attached to his mother (you’ll be trying to cut the umbilical cord for the rest of the relationship!)    We always think a guy who loves his mom is a good thing, it is, but there's  a difference.  Being a good son with respect for and a high regard for his mom is cool.  If they talk EVERY day, socialize more than for just special occasions and holidays, or tells her everything like you tell your best friend, GET OUT.  She will always undermine you, and you will always be second to her.   Yes, it's creepy, but it doesn't seem that way until you're close and in the relationship, and then you'll wish you got in with the Addams Family..   Less creepy. 

• A man who hates his mother (all his mommy issues will be targeted at you!)
Overtly or passive aggressively.  Hopefully you've learned how to detect passive aggressive personalities---  Whether men or women, you'll know that these people in any type of relationship are toxic to the energy of the universe.    Call Hazmat and steer clear. 
( Would you rather be slapped in the face, or stabbed in the back.)   Right, you don't want either, but you are guaranteed a knife in your back, so turn around and stay away, period.